“The band is a cross-section of the school’s population,” he said. “A lot of these parents work two or three jobs to give their kids a better life. Many of these kids don’t have the opportunity to do things like club sports. These kids find another home here. It’s a family.”
I spent a majority of my high school life in the band and volunteering with friends. Looking back, our shared struggle bonded us closer than family. It was this escape from my mundane filial life that taught me discipline, time management, teamwork, resilience and flexibility.
“You remember what being in the band was like,” he said to me as my mind flashes back to endless pushups and parades. “It doesn’t matter if you're the best player or a beginner. Everyone’s a starter, no one gets benched.” Bands continue to compete from all throughout the Bay Area at Independence High School on the Eastside, and that culture of family, hard work, and belonging remains ever present.